Can someone be happy after hurting someone?
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Can someone be happy after hurting someone?
Originally Answered: How can someone be happy after hurting someone? This is not true. No one can get away by hurting others and how they are punished is between their belief and them, that must not disturb others.
Why do I treat the ones I love badly?
When we hurt someone for no reason, it’s because we fear rejection or disconnection from that person. We hope that, by lashing out, they’ll show us more love, attention or understanding. As a result, we’ll feel ‘safer’ in the relationship. So, we behave badly because we want to feel ‘safe’.
How do I stop myself from hurting others?
How to not hurt people’s feelings: 10 easy tips
- 1) No one can feel what you feel.
- 2) Don’t put expectations on others.
- 3) Consider what your intentions are in the situation.
- 4) Don’t use words that hurt people.
- 5) What hurts you is not the same thing that will hurt them.
- 6) Leave the uncomfortable topics on the table.
Is it ever OK to hurt someone?
If you hurt someone because you’re trying to take care of and protect yourself, that is acceptable and emotionally healthy. If you intentionally hurt someone out of meanness and wanting them to suffer, that’s unacceptable and unhealthy.
Do hurt people hurt people?
Remember that hurt people hurt people and it is not about you. Unless you have hurt the person in some way, know that they are acting from a place of pain and a yearning desire for love. Hurting people often don’t love themselves enough so they look for love and approval from others.
Is it better to be hurt than to hurt others?
Quote by ishida sui: “It’s better to be hurt than to hurt others.
Is it possible for someone to be hurtful to you?
Someone can only be hurtful to you if you’re prepared to play your part. If you have a history of being in relationships where someone intentionally hurts you, you should seek out help for your own issues.
Why do people react to pain differently?
People react to pain differently and deal with it differently. This is even truer when it comes to someone who has been emotionally hurt. Sadly, people who are emotionally wounded, find it hard to live with their traumas and continuously seek ways to heal the pain they feel in their souls.
Why do we inflict pain on the people we love?
It’s impossible to go through life without causing hurt to those people we love. We may have to do this for their own good—for instance, when we need to be firm with a child who we believe is engaged in destructive behaviours. We may inflict pain on another person when we need to do what is right for us, such as leaving a relationship.
Why do people say “you hurt my feelings”?
Walking around constantly claiming “you hurt my feelings” is actually a behavioural pattern and a choice you are making. The great thing about choices is that we have the power to make other ones. Of course a behavioural pattern is something we’ve done for so long we usually need support to recognise it and start making that different choice.