What do you do when the girl you love cheats on you?

but here’s what to do:

• Don’t Rush to a Decision.
• Get Advice, but Remember: The Decision Is Up to You.
• Be Honest, and Demand Honesty Back.
• Don’t Blame Yourself (But Don’t Completely Let Yourself Off the Hook)
• Focus on Some Self Improvement.
• Look at the Bigger Picture with Your Girlfriend and Consider Your Options.

How do you take care of yourself after being cheated on?

How to cope with being cheated on

1. Remember: you are not to blame.
2. Accept that things are going to suck for a while.
3. Put yourself first.
4. Try to keep your cool.
5. Don’t make decisions out of fear.
6. Surround yourself with your squad.
7. Take a mini-break from socials.
8. Ask for (professional) help if you need it.

What happens when you find out your husband has cheated?

When your worst fears are confirmed and you find out your husband has cheated, it’s completely devastating. News of that betrayal likely brings up fury, deep hurt and even hopelessness.

Is it normal to want to punish your husband for cheating?

To make things even worse, he may try to deny it or react with hostility at the mere accusation of cheating, even though–or maybe because–he is guilty as charged. It’s normal to want to punish him so he knows how much he hurt you. It’s also normal not to know what to do. You don’t want to feel like a fool, and you already do.

What is the truth about cheating?

The truth about cheating is that we all want to do it, on some level, almost all the time, and we don’t cheat by deciding not to, every single day. Think about it. How many times, per day, do you mentally sort people into the categories of ‘would touch naked’ and ‘would not touch naked’?

Does cheating hurt betrayed men more than women?

Cheating hurts betrayed men just as much as it hurts betrayed women. The keeping of secrets, especially sexual and romantic secrets, damages relationship trust and is incredibly painful regardless of gender.