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What to do if your best friend betrays you?

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What to do if your best friend betrays you?

Here are the steps you should take either way.

  1. Accept that being betrayed by a friend is deeply hurtful.
  2. If you can, have an honest conversation with your friend.
  3. Figure out why you feel so betrayed.
  4. Ask whether the relationship is worth saving.
  5. Ask whether they are sorry.
  6. Don’t rush into a decision.
  7. Say goodbye.

How do I forgive my ex best friend?

  1. 1 Acknowledge Your Pain. It will be difficult for you to forgive your best friend unless you are honest with yourself about how his actions hurt you.
  2. 2 Let Go of Vengeance. You most likely are fighting with the idea of justice and how your best friend’s actions were not fair.
  3. 3 Practice Loving.
  4. 4 Free Yourself.
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How do you fix a friendship after betrayal?

Talk to your friend about the betrayal. Communicate your feeling to them and explain why you felt betrayed. You can say something like, “I felt betrayed and felt like you didn’t care about my feelings or well-being. It really put me in a negative space and made me feel like I didn’t want to be your friend anymore.”

Can u forgive a friend who betrayed you?

You can forgive your friend for his or her hurtful words and deeds and gain the mental health benefit from such forgiveness. Indeed, you must do so in order for you to be able to move on and take this negativity from your thoughts.

Should you be friends with someone who hurt you?

If someone is hurting you too much, don’t even try to be there for him or her. True friends and healthy relationships should never be one-sided or compromise the integrity of your well-being. Remember: A true friend or partner in life would never want to cause you pain or hurt you in any way.

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Should I forgive betrayal?

It might sound surprising, but forgiveness as an intentional act is not necessary to rebuild betrayed relationships. I have seen a great many successfully repaired relationships with no one saying, “I forgive you.” The decision to consciously forgive is highly personal, a question you must answer within your own heart.

How do I regain my best friend’s trust?

How to Rebuild Trust in a Friendship

  1. Once You Apologize, Give Your Friend Space.
  2. Be Honest About What Led to Your Mistake.
  3. Approach Your Friend With Empathy.
  4. Avoid All Gossip.
  5. Don’t Go Into Great Detail With Others About You and Your Friend’s Issue(s)
  6. Let Time Work Its Magic.