How do you tell if my boyfriend is using me?

Here are 20 big signs he’s using you

1. 1) Your phone only lights up after dark.
2. 2) He doesn’t protect you.
3. 3) He doesn’t open up to you.
4. 4) He doesn’t ask about you.
5. 5) You’re not going on actual dates.
6. 6) He keeps putting off being “exclusive”
7. 7) He’s financially dependent on you.
8. 8) You’ve never met his friends.

What are car guys like?

Just to give you a better idea, a car guy is a kind of guy whose main obsession is cars and just about anything that is related to them. As the Urban Dictionary defines it, a car guy is a “super hero who’s super power is knowing all about cars. He even likes to drive them. His arch nemesis is Motorcycle Man.”

How do you know if your boyfriend is selfish?

He ignores or downplays your emotions. If his reaction to every single argument/disagreement is to try to de-escalate it as quickly as possible without even solving the issue because he really can’t deal with your feelings, he’s selfish AF. You’re overreacting, you misunderstood him, you’re PMSing… he’s got every excuse in the book.

Does your boyfriend ever do something nice for You?

Nope. He’s never once gone out of his to do something nice for you. And no, that one time he remembered to put the toilet seat down doesn’t count. Honestly, he thinks he treats you like a queen and he has no idea why you don’t see that — that’s the sad part.

Should I be worried if my boyfriend has a lot of friends?

If your boyfriend has a huge group of friends and a bunch of them are girls who basically hate you, you should definitely be worried. Who wouldn’t be, right? He would feel the exact same way if the situation was completely reversed and you had a bunch of male friends who weren’t super thrilled about him.

Should I be embarrassed by my boyfriend and his female friends?

If your friends and family are starting to catch on to the fact that there’s something seriously up with your boyfriend and his female friends, well, that definitely tells you everything that you need to know, right? You should never be embarrassed by your boyfriend or by anything that’s going on in your relationship.