Is talking about exes okay?

You might feel awkward discussing exes with your new partner, but having an honest conversation with them about past relationships is perfectly healthy. It can bring you closer together and help you to better understand your significant other, and vice versa.

What is an appropriate relationship with an ex?

“Being platonic friends with an ex (after a bit of cooling off time) is completely fine, as long as you respect boundaries, don’t force your partner to hang out with your ex and let everyone know there’s no chance of reconciliation,” says online dating expert Julie Spira.

Should you ask about exes?

If you’re worried that your partner is still attracted to their ex, or that they might have some sort of ongoing relationship, definitely ask about it. But if all is well and you feel secure, it may not be a good idea to offhandedly ask if they’re still attracted to their ex.

Why you shouldn’t mention your ex?

For a girl, hearing another woman’s name (especially an ex) can incite some very violent reactions. Men shouldn’t talk about their ex in the first place to the woman in front of them because it will only end in trouble. There’s no good way to end a conversation that starts with your ex.

How do you keep your boundaries with your ex?

Case Of The Ex: How To Set Boundaries With Your Ex-Lover Without Being Petty

1. Give each other closure.
2. Decide what sort of communication, if any, is appropriate.
3. Draw clear boundaries between mutual friends.
4. Make social media a safe zone.
5. Give a heads up about changes to shared accounts.

How do you draw boundaries with your ex?

How do I set boundaries with my ex?

Is it good to tell your partner about your past?

The short answer is yes, it is important to talk to your partner about your past. But that doesn’t mean sharing everything, though. There are things from your past that have no bearing on your current relationship. You can keep them to yourself.