Should I tell my child they hurt my feelings?

“When a child hurts their parent’s feelings it is important to stop, pause, and address these hurt feelings,” family therapist Katie Ziskind told Fatherly. “This process teaches your child empathy and compassion. Parents who brush it off actually do a disservice to their child.”

What to do when your child is hurting you?

Frame your rules in a positive manner whenever possible. Instead of saying, “Don’t hit,” say, “Use respectful touches.” Talk to your child about the rules to ensure they understand the consequences of breaking the rules. When your child hits you, firmly say, “No hitting.

What should I do when my adult child hurts my feelings?

In your response, set an example for your adult child. You can tell your child that he hurt your feelings, stating your side of the problem after you have heard his. If your child is out of line, establish boundaries based on the kind of relationship you would like to establish, suggests Dr. Kathy McCoy in “When Adult Children Become Strangers.”

How do you show affection to a child who doesn’t respond?

Recognize your child’s feelings. Show them that you understand they were hurt or scared. If your action was sparked by something your kids did or didn’t do, make sure they understand that your affection is not based on them meeting your expectations.

Is your child feeling like a kid all over again?

Your child may be an adult now, but when they’re talking with you about these deep-rooted, possibly painful issues, they may seem like a kid all over again.

What happens when a child believes their feelings are denied?

When a child believes his thoughts or feelings have been denied, not only does he feel more isolated, he’s liable to get even more angry, frustrated and moody. So if your child says, “You never take my side; you’re always on my brother’s side,” during an argument, and you reply, “No, that’s not true,” that’s also a form of invalidation.