Should you wish your narcissistic ex happy birthday?

“If the relationship ended on relatively good terms, it’s fine,” says recovery coach Manya Wakefield, founder of Narcissistic Abuse Rehab. “If the two of you are on friendly terms and keep in regular contact, you can and should wish your ex a happy birthday,” says relationship and dating coach Ashley Harris.

Should you wish your ex happy birthday on Facebook?

If your ex wished you a happy birthday on Facebook, then it’s only polite to return the well-wishes. However, keep it short and to the point. You wouldn’t want him to misconstrue your Facebook happy birthday as having any of the ulterior motivates mentioned above.

What if my ex texts me happy birthday?

Some exes send the ‘Happy Birthday’ text because they want you to know that you’re still on their mind. They didn’t forget about you and they want you to realize that you are still a thought to them. Other exes text you on your special day just to see if they’ll get a response.

What if your ex wishes you happy birthday?

Simply thank him back with a thank you. You are in a phase where every move he would make would seem he is trying to get back with you. But its not necessarily the case. You need to reply to his message in a kind and polite manner without any tint of your feelings for him.

Should you use your ex’s Birthday to get back together?

You can definitely “use” an ex’s birthday as a moment to break the ice and get back in touch. They would most probably appreciate it and be happy to start talking to you again on this special day; unless you’ve been fighting since the breakup.

What happens when you don’t reach out to your ex?

By not reaching out, they are likely to really notice your absence, because they’ll probably be checking their phone or Facebook all day expecting to receive a message from you. Not reaching out will not go unnoticed; and can prompt your ex to come to you in hopes of an explanation.

Should I send my ex husband a birthday message?

Never abandon your own journey at the expense of a previous relationship. Some people may find it to be “hypocritical” to send a birthday message when things are less than peachy between you. I understand why you’d want to keep your distance and avoid contact, and that your ex’s birthday doesn’t change the way you feel.