Is being an Enneagram 4 bad?

Fours typically have problems with a negative self-image and chronically low self-esteem. They attempt to compensate for this by cultivating a Fantasy Self—an idealized self-image which is built up primarily in their imaginations.

What do Enneagram 4s struggle with?

Average Fours are often critical and picky over others’ lack of awareness of their sensitivities. The may feel irritable about others’ apparent coarseness. Similarly, Fours can also become resentful when they feel that others’ do not appreciate their depth and creativity.

Are Enneagram 4s selfish?

Because of their autopilot tendencies of self-referencing and being anchored internally, Fours are often considered to be selfish and narcissistic. A big misconception is that they think of themselves as greater than others.

Is Enneagram Type 4 the worst?

Enneagram Fours at Their Worst: They are often self-destructive, turning to drugs, alcohol, or suicide attempts as a way to cope with their increasing feelings of shame. Because this is so exhausting for them, they feel like giving up on life and withdraw from everything outside themselves.

Are Type 4 Enneagrams Empaths?

… feels deeply and is very empathetic, but can also become paralyzed by feeling too much when allowing the world’s pain to flood in without boundary Boundaries are not only helpful for Four’s, they are extremely important in developing self-love and maintaining inner wellbeing.

How do you deal with Enneagram 4?

How to move away from stress as a type four

1. Be the mountain. Although Enneagrams 4 feels emotions intensely and can be overwhelmed by their own feelings, it’s important to remember that they don’t define you.
2. Be creative.
3. Be a volunteer.
4. Be self-disciplined.
5. Be positive.

Are Enneagram 4s nostalgic?

Nostalgic by nature, Fours often focus on past experiences. This can lead them to deeper insights or to downward spirals of melancholy and/or painful unresolved feelings. Craving ideal circumstances or love, they often ruminate on what is missing and perceived to be important.

Is there anything good about Enneagram 4?

Enneagram Fours have the motivational need to express their uniqueness and be authentic. Fours value individualism and as a result, feelings, self-expression and purpose will be important to them. They are quite romantic at heart and appreciate beauty and creating meaning for themselves and for others.