Is it wrong to make people happy?

Well, the good news is: No one and no thing can cause you to be happy. In fact, people and things don’t cause happiness at all. It’s what you think about those other people and things that determines whether you feel happy or sad.

What’s wrong with happiness?

What’s more, psychologist Barbara Fredrickson has found that too much positive emotion—and too little negative emotion—makes people inflexible in the face of new challenges. Not only does excessive happiness sometimes wipe out its benefits for us—it may actually lead to psychological harm.

Is your partner supposed to make you happy?

A happy relationship starts with two happy individuals. And even though happiness increases when you share it, your partner is not responsible for your happiness. You are the only person who can please you in the long run. At first, that might sound scary, but actually it’s liberating.

Can we please everyone?

You absolutely shouldn’t try to please everyone all the time. It’s just not worth it. Not only will you begin to live your life according to someone else’s standards, but you’ll deplete yourself of any sense of happiness or enthusiasm. Do what makes you happy and what pleases you.

Why is everyone else happy and you’re not?

Why is everyone else happy and you’re not? It’s an illusion that we have created for fear of sitting with the discomfort and opening up about our authentic humanity. The more we can acknowledge it, the less power it holds over us. I’ve spent so much time trying to hide my darkness.

Do we put too much pressure on ourselves to be happy?

While we must absolutely spend time celebrating the sweet magical moments life brings us, it has put this consuming pressure on us to constantly be happy. When this doesn’t happen, we inevitably start to compare ourselves to all those who never seem to miss a beat.

Do you connect to happiness every moment of Your Life?

I don’t connect to the feeling of happiness every single moment of my life, but I have learned to connect to purpose and awareness. I’ve chosen to live life as a soul dancing through the ups, the downs, and honoring my time spent in both levels of consciousness.

Does being a people-pleaser leads to unhappiness?

Being a People-Pleaser Leads to Unhappiness I realize, now that my people-pleasing tactics were really a veiled attempt to sway others’ judgment of and reciprocation to me.