Why is being nice a bad thing?

People take you for granted – they abuse your generosity and niceness. You feel guilty about telling people that they hurt/ wronged you, and as such, you keep it bottled inside. Bottled feelings can build up to the detrimental of your health.

What are the disadvantages of kindness?

5 Ways Being Too Nice Can Hurt You

• People will see you as weak… and take advantage.
• You forget to be nice to yourself.
• You attract the wrong kind of people.
• Some people will distrust you.
• You’ll warp your expectations.

Can you ever be too kind?

But it is possible to be too nice — and it comes with a whole list of negative side effects. “Being too nice can simply be another way of saying someone is uncomfortable with the possibility of letting people down,” Dr. Robin Buckley, CPC, a cognitive behavioral coach, tells Bustle.

Is it better to be nice or kind?

“Nice” is defined as “pleasing; agreeable; delightful”, while “kind” is defined as “having, showing, or proceeding from benevolence.” This difference seem to explain why we use “nice” but not “kind” to describe things besides people and the way they treat each other.

Does being nice matter?

If we try to embrace accommodation, humility, and goodness in our interactions with others, being nice will likely quickly follow. Being nice also has many positive benefits in that not only will you be more liked but trusted and respected, too. So, give niceness a chance.

Does being nice make you more vulnerable?

People sometimes act as if being nice will protect you by virtue of being such a virtue that others will see your vulnerability and respect it. The truth is that being nice is a virtue and people do recognize it makes you vulnerable except they don’t always appreciate it.

Does society want you to be comfortable?

Society doesn’t care if you become better or become “more” comfortable is okay for society. But, comfortable isn’t where God works best. Let yourself get uncomfortable and watch what God does in your life. Society tells us that we need to sing like Beyonce and have a body like Kylie Kardashian. God says we were fearfully and wonderfully made.

Why do some people think being nice is a virtue?

Because when you are nice you still get hurt. People sometimes act as if being nice will protect you by virtue of being such a virtue that others will see your vulnerability and respect it. The truth is that being nice is a virtue and people do recognize it makes you vulnerable except they don’t always appreciate it.

Is it hard to be a Christian in today’s Society?

But, I truly believe that now, more than ever before, though it may sometimes be hard to be a Christian in today’s society, it’s also the most important thing you should be holding on to in this world. Society wants us to be comfortable. God works best when we’re in uncomfortable situations.