Is competing and comparing the same?
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Is competing and comparing the same?
Competing leads to comparing, specifically comparing ourselves to other people and their talents. But the fact of the matter is, we weren’t all created to run a marathon, be a fitness model, perform motivational speeches in front of thousands of people, create a software database, or be an actress on the big screen.
What does it mean to compare yourself to others?
When we compare ourselves to others, we’re often comparing their best features against our average ones. It’s like being right-handed and trying to play an instrument with your left hand. Not only do we naturally want to be better than them, the unconscious realization that we are not often becomes self-destructive.
Why do people compete and compare?
We use competition as a way to cover up our insecurities, to try to prove our worth, and perhaps because we think that there’s a limited supply of success and joy in the world. Unfortunately, this attitude can compromise relationships, happiness, and even our feelings of self-worth.
What are the effects of comparing oneself to other people?
No matter how well you’re doing, comparing yourself to other people takes your eyes off your goals. And it can cause you to feel bad about how you’re doing–because there will always be someone who looks happier, wealthier, healthier, and more successful.
What do you know about compare contrast?
Comparing and contrasting means looking for similarities and differences between two things, which you can see nicely in a Venn diagram. Compare and contrast is a rhetorical style that discusses the similarities and differences of two or more things: ideas, concepts, items, places, etc.
How do I stop competing with others?
Here are some useful tips that have worked really well:
- Be aware of its ill effects.
- See your own successes.
- Desire the greater things in life.
- Compete less and appreciate more.
- Practice gratitude.
- Take a walk.
- Find inspiration without comparison.
- Compare with yourself.
How do you stop competing with someone?
How do I stop competing with my friend?
Here are some ways to do that:
- Shift to gratitude. It’s impossible to be jealous when you’re being grateful.
- Love yourself. Make a list of all the things that make being you awesome. Whenever you’re feeling jealous, pull out the list and remember that you’re amazing, too.
Why is it wrong to compare yourself to others?
You can control one life—yours. But when we constantly compare ourselves to others, we waste precious energy focusing on other peoples’ lives rather than our own. Comparisons often result in resentment. Resentment towards others and towards ourselves.
What is the difference between comparing and contrasting?
You probably know contrast in its relation to compare. To contrast something is to look for differences among two or more elements, but compare is to do the opposite, to look for similarities.