What to do when someone keeps hurting you?

Tips for Forgiving Someone Who Isn’t Sorry

1. Tell Them Things Need to Change and State Clear Consequences if They Don’t. Make it very clear to the person who hurt you that things need to change.
2. Set Boundaries and Enforce Them.
3. Know When It’s Time to Walk Away.

Why do I keep letting the same person hurt me?

You know this person well enough that you’re used to having them around. And if you care for them, even if they’ve hurt you, you subconsciously want them to get better so you keep going back to them. Without any drastic change or discussion with them, they’re likely to hurt you still.

Can someone hurt you and still love you?

Love is closely connected with vulnerability: the ability to hurt and to be hurt. Although some kinds of hurt in love are intended, most of them are not. Nevertheless, someone who deliberately hurts another person can simultaneously claim to love that person.

How do you forgive and forget when someone hurts you?

Here are eight ways to work on that.

1. Get mad, feel hurt and grieve.
2. Ask yourself whether your anger is constructive or destructive.
3. Don’t worry—you aren’t saying the offense was OK.
4. Practice stress-reduction techniques.
5. Remind yourself why you want this person in your life.
6. Set boundaries.

Do hurt people hurt people more than they hurt themselves?

We get to be careful as we teach people how to treat us — no matter how much a person is hurting, we deserve to be loved in a way that feels good. Hurt people hurt people, however they hurt themselves more. We don’t need to feel hurt in the process as they take themselves down.

What do you say to someone who has hurt you?

Unless you have hurt the person in some way, know that they are acting from a place of pain and a yearning desire for love. Hurting people often don’t love themselves enough so they look for love and approval from others. We can always offer love to them — either in close proximity or from further away.

Do psychopaths care if they hurt you?

Psychopaths Don’t Care If They Hurt You. This Is Why. New research shows why the psychopathic are so likely to harm others. A key feature of psychopathy is insensitivity to causing harm in others. Researchers have long attempted to understand why people high in psychopathy have this emotional blind spot.

How do you deal with people who don’t understand you?

Never waste your time trying to explain who you are to people who are committed to misunderstanding you. If someone doesn’t get you, don’t hang around waiting until they do. Don’t make it your mission to get them to understand and like you—they’re not interested in you as a person.